“Mom, can Fabry kill you?”
This wasn’t the first time this question was posed to me. The first time my child asked me, I was taken aback. It seemingly came out of the blue. So I did what all seasoned parents do: I mumbled something nonsensical and then changed the subject. Much to my relief, whatever I said to divert the conversation worked.
Weeks later, this question was posed once again by the same child, who does not have Fabry disease. What must be going through their head as they think of their siblings, their mother, and several extended family members who have Fabry?
This time, I felt only slightly more prepared. How do you really prepare yourself for a question like this from a small child?
We were in the car on the way home from school, discussing some of the varying symptoms of Fabry disease. One child talked about the pains they have when they get a fever or become overheated from playing sports. Another said that this doesn’t happen to them and then asked if it would one day be a part of their life as well.
I tried to explain that although one might not suffer from these pains today, they likely eventually would. It hurt my heart to have to explain all these things to this child. Then, from the back seat, I heard the question again: “Mom, can Fabry kill you?”
I took a deep breath and explained that yes, there is a possibility that Fabry could be a cause of death because of what it can do to our insides. I also told them how thankful we are for the infusions that are available to help keep our bodies healthy. I talked about how important it is to stay active and to eat healthy foods.
We talked about how God created us, and that when He did, He numbered our days. He alone knows when our days on this earth are done. We can do everything that we know to be healthy, but ultimately, God is in control, and we choose to rest in this knowledge.
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